This is a re-post from last year, but it bears repeating on this 23 degree February day. Most of my friends and relations live in places like Nashville and Charlotte and Houston, where it’s in the 80s right now, so if you find yourself in a place where you are getting enough vitamin D for the day from 3 minutes of sunlight exposure and where you are wearing flip flops, please ignore this. But if you, like us, are still 3 months away from weather like that, here’s a good tradition to do on Fridays. (I suppose you could still do something similar even if you live in a more temperate climate, because it’s fun to have a Friday tradition. We’ve been doing this for over a year now, and it’s become one of our favorite parts of the week.)
Our Fredagsys is going to be (post kids in bed) a big bowl of popcorn & Victoria (because John is awesome and generously lets us watch the shows I want to watch, which tend to take place in England and involve more drinking of tea and fancy dresses than he would probably prefer. Thank you, sweetie.) Hope you all stay cozy today & can treat yourselves and others with as much gentleness and generosity and warmth as possible in these cold days.
More about Cozy Friday from a post I wrote last year:
I read about the notion of Fredagsmys in this blog post from A Cup of Jo about parenting in Sweden. The word basically means “Cozy Friday,” and it pretty much captures my feelings about Friday nights. I just didn’t think there was a good word, let alone an entire cultural phenomenon, that celebrated it. So, as far as I can tell, in Sweden people curl up with lots of potato chips (ok, a little weird, but ok), huddle under blankets, watch movies, and just spend quality time with the fam. Amazing. We’re not at a movie-watching point in our kids’ lives quite yet, but we are all about getting cozy on Fridays. We sometimes make a pizza all together (Will is obsessed with cutting things with his little knife, plus I think there must have been a Daniel Tiger episode about making pizzas, because he knows ALL ABOUT IT), and sometimes pancakes or waffles. Or something else easy and cozy. Now that the days are getting shorter and the weather colder we are going to do it up for Fredagsmys. Some ideas for getting cozy on Fridays:
2. put Christmas music on (or this album). or whatever music makes you happy.
3. Put on pjs and a robe and slippers or thick wool socks
4. If you have a fireplace, make a fire!
5. Or if not light as many candles as possible
6. turn off and put away all the phones/ipods/ipads/computers/devices (for real)
7. Invite friends over and order cheap pizza
8. Or get some pizza dough from trader joes and cook your own
9. Or make a big pot of chili or soup earlier in the day to have ready for dinner
10. Use paper plates, bowls, etc.!
11. Make a big pile of all the pillows and blankets you can find and curl up with the kids and read
12. Make hot chocolate for everyone
13. Or cider and drink it through cinnamon sticks like straws
14. Or some good hot herbal tea in special mugs
15. Bake cinnamon rolls (from the can, obviously– Cozy Friday is all about No Dishes)
16. Play board games!
17. Family camp out in sleeping bags in the living room (or wherever)
18. Family read-aloud of whatever awesome book you’re reading
19. Watch a movie or show (we try to not watch much during the week so Friday is our night to binge on episodes of the West Wing or Chefs Table)
20. Pancakes for dinner (with sausage or eggs)
21. make popcorn on the stove. (it’s easy, I promise) or in the microwave. or over a fire pit. or whatever. sprinkle with salt, garlic powder, and nutritional yeast. or check out these 30 awesome toppings.
Happy Cozy Friday, y’all! (And if anyone has other good ideas for making Friday nights cozy and special I’d love to hear! read here for more about a similar concept in Denmark: Hygge)